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Features No 60-How hard is it to just be honest?

Journal Entry: Sun Jun 12, 2011, 6:56 AM
What does a man do,when he no longer loves you?
When he wants out of your relationship?
Because he's bored or has found someone else?
Does he come and tell you?
Or does he become more and more distant,
more and more indifferent,
until he makes YOU to tell him that you want out?
And that's so much worse than the fact he doesn't love you any more..

You feel his change,his coldness,
and you keep asking him if something is wrong..
He brings you in the position not to care about your decency,
to beg for an honest explanation,to nag...
But he refuses everything.....
He wants to make you feel absurd and cheep...
He is NEVER going to be honest with you..
He keeps drifting away,until he makes YOU tell him to end it...
And then he accuses YOU for ending it.....


This is not personal,it's something i've discussed with many of my female friends...
If any of you have had a different experience,please prove me wrong...

My male friends,i'm sorry...Do you desagree with me?
How many of you,my dearests,had the courage
to tell a woman that you don't love her any more?






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DestinyWhy?...

    Born on a stormy summer night

They all knew she would be courageous; heart like a lions
    
    At the top of the class

They all knew she would turn out oh so smart
    
    So independent

They all knew she would serve them without a word

        Now...what am I? In their eyes I was a wonderful child...all I did was
                             
FloatingFloating….

Drifting on the lake
The current carries me
…in a soothing embrace
flow on,
flow on…

I close my eyes
Sparkling
images…
Red of the sun
flickers,
sparks,
And you

My hands float lightly…
swirling patterns
Release
renew
Reflections within,
and without

I pause
and touch down
On tip toe
…the sand between my toes
Ever moving,
swirling…
Drawing me in

Sparkling reflections
drift across the tiny waves
…to meet me
greet me
Reflections of the trees,
coming to me
through me
Magic

I dive
under the water
Forward,
onward
Out where it's
dark
…and cold
All to mys
Don't Judge MeIn silence she suffered for so many years,
Never once crying,
Never shedding a tear,
Learned the hard way to not voice a sound,
So never once did she cry out loud,
She took the abuse of many for many years,
Suffering brutality and living in agonizing fear,
Beaten, raped, and emotionally scared,
Never once asking or crying for help,
No that wasn't her style.

Yet even after these years,
En-caged she has stayed,
Suffering nigh terrors and fears
In so many ways,
Not learning who to trust,
Or how to except love,
Yet not once did she scream or cry to anyone.

No one knew she was a victim of abuse,
No one would know,
June Haiku30

bury me please where poppies bloom

29

attacking convention
stirring up a hornet's nest
some things can't be helped

28

rhythmic cracking
somewhere unseen
—batting practice

27

the cat nudges me
as I make lunch
—tuna sandwiches

26

oscillating fan
the black cat chases
phantoms

25

withered plants
the heat takes its toll

24

summer arrives
with a vengeance
30 degrees

23

weekend trip
we are met at the door
by frowning cats

22

3 am text
morning class
cancelled

21

at pole's end
bean plants reach
skyward

20

at deer park
the smell of manure
sweet memories

19

deer wander
under Buddha's smile
anci



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Thank you for being here!..:) Have a great week,my beloved..Take care!:love:

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:iconthecandleobra:
We don't generally see people we hate as victims.
Angry abusive people generally do see themselves
as victims, rightly or wrongly. I wasn't trying
to justify anybodies behavior. Just to show that
it is sexist. Women chose passive forms of
abuse instead of physical forms, that's a fact.
Just as they chose less physical forms of suicide.
Women prefer to poison themselves to shooting. I
don't think it is any more forgivable for being
passive nor do I think it is less destructive
in the end. Men do it too - but the most?
most??? When you stop blaming men and start
seeing abuse as abuse, physical or emotional,
there's hope. The solution is not in fixing
those "evil men". The first step in the solution
is stopping the silly "girls are better than boys"
games that children play.


Like I said he has little chance of a fair hearing.
Women take the passive role almost every time. His
best chance of staying out of trouble is getting away.
That is, getting out of the situation that provokes.
Rather than bearing the risk that he will react physiclly
to the abuse. It's the women that our society accepts
as less abusive because her behavior is less physical
Society is wrong. It so chauvinist. It's backward
but it doesn't look like it's going to change anytime
soon. I respect the fact that you tell us you
haven't seen more female abuse. It's just not my
report. I hope you can respect that.

Ernie
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:iconsesam-is-open:
Even worse is when he say it, you ask him to leave and not have the guts to do it ...
Beautiful feature, Athina:heart:
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:iconchryssalis:
Thank you so much,dearest Selina!:hug::thanks:
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:iconsesam-is-open:
Always a pleasure, my dear Athina!:heart:
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*tsheva Jun 14, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Men are pussies.

They don't want to do the dirty work.

They want to come out smelling like a rose.

When they tell the story, they don't tell what they did, they only say what you did.

Men are cowards when it comes to dealing with endings with women.

They are not as strong as us in many ways.

I don't envy them, I pity them for they will never know how much they were loved...

Until you are gone.
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:iconchryssalis:
I can see that you had an experience...
You're so right...They don't want any responsibilities..
Yes,it's their loss..Eventually..
Maybe some day they'll realize that...
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:icontsheva:
*tsheva Jun 14, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I am going through a situation at the moment where a man I was kind of seeing, who showed intense interest for almost 6 months overnight started to chase some young girl at our job and didn't speak to me for a whole shift and then he asked everyone why I stopped talking to him. He even had the nerve to say he's not responsible for the way someone feels about him.

So he's an ass.

She's not even interested in him that way but she flirted with him and she's young and then I became invisible. I'm sure at some point in time, he will come to me and try to talk to me but...I'm over it.

Men can be like little kids sometimes and not realize something until it's too late.

It's always too late.
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:iconchryssalis:
That's exactly what i'm talking about...
Pretending that there is or was nothing going on...
It makes you so angry,doesn't it??

He sure is an ass,no question about it,
but it still makes you angry...

I hate this kind of behavior...
And they're not like kids...
They're just stupid cowards...
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